Many men & women today appear to be surface & physical, not taking time to really get to know someone to learn a person's true character. While aesthetics and cosmetics can cover up the imperfections. What's underneath beauty, what's beyond the muscles. Do they have anything interesting to say, can they hold a conversation, what fears do they have and what goals. Are you just a pretty face, or buff body? It only last so long and goes so far. Being well rounded, intelligent, thoughtful, and not self absorbed, could lead to someone real ...